Shelby Jean Marra, 87, formerly of Staunton, passed away on Sunday, March 16, 2025, at Meridian Village Memory Care in Glen Carbon. She was born February 8, 1938, in Nashville, the daughter of the late Harold and Martha (Schneider) Hermeling. She married Edward “Buck” Marra on June 8, 1963, at Trinity Lutheran Church in Nashville; he preceded her in death.
Shelby graduated from Nashville High School in 1956 and went on to attend St. Paul’s College, graduating with an associate degree in teaching in 1958. She continued her education and achieved a bachelor’s in education from McKendree University in 1968. She always loved being a student and went on to receive her Masters in Teaching from Blackburn College in 1993.
She began her teaching career in 1958 at Zion Lutheran School in Staunton. Shelby was only 20 years old when she began teaching a combined class of 5th and 6th graders. While at Zion, she taught everything, including art, music, and PE. She also coached junior high cheerleading and track.
In 1965 she took a 5th grade position in Bethalto Unit 8 School System. During her time in Bethalto, she taught her largest class of 48 students. She went to Staunton Unit 6 Schools in 1968, teaching 6th grade math and language arts. She was known for producing plays every year with her 6th graders. During her last years, she was a high school cheerleading coach. She retired from full-time teaching in 2003 after 45 years of teaching. While she may have retired from teaching school, she never quit teaching.
Shelby always knew she was going to be a teacher. As a toddler, she would teach her dolls & from there went on to teach her younger brother and sister how to read prior to starting school. Her four grandchildren were her favorite pupils. Every day after school, she required them to sit around the dining room table while she assisted and supervised the completion of their homework and studying for tests. Her favorite job was being a Grandma. She loved chauffeuring them to and from school, orthodontist appointments, and other school activities.
Her last years were spent at Meridian Memory Care in Glen Carbon. The family would like to thank everyone at Meridian Memory Care for the exceptional care they provided her.
She is survived by her only child, Shelli (Kelly) Brown of Edwardsville; four grandchildren—Adam (Sabrina) Cook of St. Louis, MO; Sophia Cook of Edwardsville; and Grace and Rachel Brown, both of Edwardsville; her brother, Dean (Dottie) Hermeling of Loveland, CO; and one niece, Heather (John) Hanson of Loveland, CO. Besides her husband and parents, she was preceded in death by one sister, Charlene Hermeling.
Friends may call from 3 to 6 PM on Wednesday, March 19, 2025, at Williamson Funeral Home in Staunton. Funeral services will be held at 6 PM on Wednesday, March 19, 2025, at Williamson Funeral Home in Staunton, with Pastor Phil Girardin officiating. Private burial will be held in Memorial Park Cemetery in Staunton.
Memorials are suggested to the Staunton Education Foundation. To order flowers or leave an online condolence, please visit our website at www.williamsonfh.com.