
Donald pictured with his birthday flowers and birthday presents he received just recently for his birthday.
Donald E. Bray is our Resident Spotlight for Heritage Health Therapy and Senior Center. Donald has been a resident at Heritage Health, previously Heritage Manor, since March of 2011. “It is very nice here, and the staff is very helpful and considerate,” Donald said. Donald boasted of his improvements since joining the Heritage Health family and wishes to return to “home” soon.
Donald, who is 82 years young, was born in the countryside of Raymond, Illinois. In the country, he spent mostly all of his time on the farm. “I had very good parents,” he bragged, “I was very blessed in that respect.”
After his father died, Donald lived with his mother before he put her into a nursing home. Donald did not marry or have children at a young age because he promised his mother he would never depart her for another woman while she was alive. Soon after Donald placed her into a nursing home, he got married.
Donald married Ester Peachmire, who he is still legally married to now, but he does not see her often. After moving out, he bought a house in Litchfield which was “run down.” Donald went on to say he hopes his house is still there to this date and he would like to go back and visit it to see what it is like or if it has changed any.
“It is very nice here,” Donald, who is a single child, said of Heritage Health, “They treat me very good.”
As a child, Donald spent much of his time on the farm and occasionally other children came around to play with him. For the most part, Donald had to learn how to entertain himself until he started school. He started school in a country school and recalled the great distances he walked to even get to school.
Sometimes Donald had to walk over 2 miles just to get to school. “I learned to love walking,” Donald said, “But the roads were not oiled like they are now and in the spring it was very muddy, but that did not stop me.” After attending country school, Donald started high school in Carlinville and later went on to finish his high school diploma at Litchfield.
High school was a fun time according to Donald, there were a lot of girls there. After high school, Donald got a letter from the president stating he was being drafted. “I did not know what to think,” Donald said, “But I only served for two years and then I was done.”
The Army, where Donald was a construction engineer, taught him a love for camping and traveling as he spent most of his stay in Germany. In Germany, he loved meeting new people and congregating among other “English-speaking” Germans. Heritage Health reminds Donald of the army in a sense where he persistently wonders when he will be going home.
“I did whatever I was told to do in the Army,” Donald said, “They liked me, because I always listened.” He did not love the Army, but it was a good experience and it could have been worse according to Donald. “It is much like here,” Donald said of Heritage Health, “I want to go home, but I am happy I am here and very fortunate we have something like this for seniors like me.”
Donald loves camping and recalled of many camping trips he took after he was out of the army and before becoming part of the Heritage Health family. “Before I came in here, I had a big pickup truck,” Donald stated, “I put a camper on the back and I used to travel all over.”
Outside of camping, the 82 year old youngster enjoys wood-working. Donald learned wood-working in high school after taking the trade class. “To carve wood, I first needed walnut trees,” Donald explained, “So, my father and I cut the trees down and took the wood to a saw mill to be cut into boards.”
As a hobby, Donald made different types of furniture. At his home, he has many things he made. “At my home, I have a huge desk I made on my own,” Donald said as he got excited, “I also made the pulpit for Blessed Hope Baptist Church in Raymond.” The church started without much money, so Donald helped out where he could.
The church bought some old church pews and they called on Donald to fix them up. “Finally, I took them home and worked on them,” Donald explained, “I sanded them down and put a new finish on them and gave them back.” I am blessed to have learned that trade in high school, Donald said.
At Heritage Health, Donald loves the long, large hall ways. He enjoys walking down them with his girlfriend, but also likes walking with his walker. “I can sometimes walk without my walker,” Donald bragged, “But I probably look like I drank too much alcohol because I am not as steady as I used to be.”
Along with the hallways, he enjoys his television. “They put this in just for me and I am very thankful,” Donald shared. He also enjoys the cordless headphones that go with the TV so his neighbor does not get annoyed.
Overall, Donald feels very blessed at Heritage Health and would recommend the place to anyone who needs assistance or would like some more friends.
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