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Obituary of Shelby Jean Marra

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Shelby Jean Marra, 87, formerly of Staunton, passed away on Sunday, March 16, 2025, at Meridian Village Memory Care in Glen Carbon. She was born February 8, 1938, in Nashville, the daughter of the late Harold and Martha (Schneider) Hermeling. She married Edward “Buck” Marra on June 8, 1963, at Trinity Lutheran Church in Nashville; he preceded her in death.

Shelby graduated from Nashville High School in 1956 and went on to attend St. Paul’s College, graduating with an associate degree in teaching in 1958. She continued her education and achieved a bachelor’s in education from McKendree University in 1968. She always loved being a student and went on to receive her Masters in Teaching from Blackburn College in 1993.

She began her teaching career in 1958 at Zion Lutheran School in Staunton. Shelby was only 20 years old when she began teaching a combined class of 5th and 6th graders. While at Zion, she taught everything, including art, music, and PE. She also coached junior high cheerleading and track.

In 1965 she took a 5th grade position in Bethalto Unit 8 School System. During her time in Bethalto, she taught her largest class of 48 students. She went to Staunton Unit 6 Schools in 1968, teaching 6th grade math and language arts. She was known for producing plays every year with her 6th graders. During her last years, she was a high school cheerleading coach. She retired from full-time teaching in 2003 after 45 years of teaching. While she may have retired from teaching school, she never quit teaching.

Shelby always knew she was going to be a teacher. As a toddler, she would teach her dolls & from there went on to teach her younger brother and sister how to read prior to starting school. Her four grandchildren were her favorite pupils. Every day after school, she required them to sit around the dining room table while she assisted and supervised the completion of their homework and studying for tests. Her favorite job was being a Grandma. She loved chauffeuring them to and from school, orthodontist appointments, and other school activities.

Her last years were spent at Meridian Memory Care in Glen Carbon. The family would like to thank everyone at Meridian Memory Care for the exceptional care they provided her.

She is survived by her only child, Shelli (Kelly) Brown of Edwardsville; four grandchildren—Adam (Sabrina) Cook of St. Louis, MO; Sophia Cook of Edwardsville; and Grace and Rachel Brown, both of Edwardsville; her brother, Dean (Dottie) Hermeling of Loveland, CO; and one niece, Heather (John) Hanson of Loveland, CO. Besides her husband and parents, she was preceded in death by one sister, Charlene Hermeling.

Friends may call from 3 to 6 PM on Wednesday, March 19, 2025, at Williamson Funeral Home in Staunton. Funeral services will be held at 6 PM on Wednesday, March 19, 2025, at Williamson Funeral Home in Staunton, with Pastor Phil Girardin officiating. Private burial will be held in Memorial Park Cemetery in Staunton.

Memorials are suggested to the Staunton Education Foundation. To order flowers or leave an online condolence, please visit our website at www.williamsonfh.com.

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Obituary of Ross Beckman

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Ross Beckman, 90, joined his Lord in Heaven on April 29, 2026, at 2:27 AM. He was born on April 1, 1936, in Highland.  His parents were Vernon Otto Bartels and Arlene Beckman, both of New Douglas.  He was raised by his maternal grandparents, Emma (Sievers) and George Beckman of New Douglas.

Ross attended New Douglas Elementary School in New Douglas and Highland High School in Highland. His first job was at Kline’s Grocery Store in New Douglas. He also was employed at McDonnell Douglas as a sheet metal worker.  He worked for Artophone Corporation and also distributed Armstrong Flooring, worked in sales, and traveled Illinois. 

He purchased Sherman’s Department Store on East Main Street in Staunton and renamed it Beckman’s Department Store. He operated the store for 30 years before retiring. He then bought property for a new business in Equine Ranch.

Ross was married to Lela Conroy of Staunton. They had one daughter, Wendy Arlene. Lela passed away after a long illness with Huntington’s Corea. Ross was married to Frances Lee Simpson of Staunton for 27 years. She passed away from illness in 2016. He then married Sheila Fay Foster of Carlinville on May 27, 2017, at Zion Lutheran Church in Staunton.  

Ross was a member of the Staunton Jaycees for six years and was also the Chaplain for the State Jaycees. The local chapter gave him a lifelong membership. Ross served one term on the Staunton City Council as a ward #4 alderman and also was on the Dorchester Township Board.  He was a long-time elder for the Zion Lutheran Church in Staunton.

He was an avid horseman. His horse, “Atomico” was not only his show horse but his loving pet. Ross became a member of The Assembly Church in Staunton and was a very active and a devoted servant.  He loved his “church family”.

He is survived by his wife, Sheila (Foster) Beckman; son-in-law, John Walker; three brothers-in-laws, James E. Foster Jr., Gary Foster, and Mike Foster; two sisters-in-law, Deborah (Foster) Wilson and Amy Foster, all originally from Carlinville. 

Besides his wives and parents, he was preceded in death by his daughter, Wendy Arlene.

A memorial service will be held at 10:30 AM on Thursday, May 14, 2026, at The Assembly Church, 1335 S. Hackman Street, in Staunton with Pastor Arthur Braden officiating.

Ross will be greatly missed, but is in the arms of his Lord Jesus. Williamson Funeral Home is in charge of arrangements.

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Obituary of Calvin “Sonny” Weber

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Calvin “Sonny” Weber, 91 of Staunton, passed away at 4:52 PM on Thursday, April 30, 2026, at his residence in Staunton. He was born on June 19, 1934, at home in Dorsey the son of the late Robert E. and Sylvia T. (Ostendorf) Weber. 

He married Linda Norton and she preceded him in death.

“Sonny” was a union laborer for many years.  He was also an avid gardener and enjoyed taking care of his yard, spending time with his grandkids, and playing cards.

He is survived by his daughter, Michelle (Chris) Borror of Queen Creek, AZ and their two children, Lauren and Alex Borror; one son, Chris Ferguson, and his daughter, Chelsea Carr; a great granddaughter, Evelyn Carr; one brother, Marvin (Diane) Weber; and two special nieces who he referred to as his “Number One”, Deb Filotto, and his “Number Two”, Amy Korte. 

Besides his wife and parents, he was preceded in death by one sister, Evelyn Olmsted, and one brother, Bob Weber.

No services are scheduled. Memorials are suggested to the charity of the donor’s choice. Williamson Funeral Home is in charge of arrangements.

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Dr. Carla B. Engelke, 47, passed away peacefully on February 19, 2026, at her residence in Tucson, AZ. Carla was born December 7, 1978, in Alton.

She was baptized and confirmed at St. Peter’s Lutheran Church in Prairietown. She was the beloved daughter of Steve and Jeanette Engelke and an awesome sister to Mark Engelke, all of Prairietown. She leaves behind two special aunts, Sharon Schaefer and Christina Urban.

She was preceded in death by her Uncle John “Red” Urban and Uncle Arlin Schaefer and numerous cousins.

Growing up on a family farm, Carla learned relentless work ethic, faith, responsibility, and respect for humanity. Since she was a toddler, she loved animals: turtles, bunnies, bucket calves, pigs, kittens, and especially dogs (jack, Jenny, and Clifford).

She was an avid reader. She was passionate about science, research, the arts, Shakespeare, Jeopardy, Snoopy, music, and college basketball and football. She was also a devoted Cardinal fan. Two of her favorite holidays were Halloween and Christmas. We will miss her smile, her laugh, sense of humor, and spontaneous wit.

Following graduation from Edwardsville High School, Carla expanded her Illinois roots graduating from Saint Louis University Summa Cum Laude with a BS in biology. She completed her optometric education at the Southern College of Optometry in Memphis, Tennessee in 2005 and graduated Magna Cum Laude.

During optometry school, Carla participated in SVOSH (Student Volunteer Optometric Services to Humanity) traveling to developing countries, performing eye exams, and prescribing donated Lions’ Club eyeglasses to help people see the world better. She then furthered her education by completing a one-year residency in ocular disease and specializing in low vision rehabilitation at the Southern Arizona VA Health Care System in Tucson, Arizona which focused on improving the quality of life of legally blind Veterans. Upon completion of her residency, she was immediately hired as a staff optometrist where she spent her entire career serving Veterans while teaching residents and optometry students.

Carla’s career was marked not only by clinical excellence but by visionary leadership and unwavering dedication to the optometric profession. She served as President of the Association of Armed Forces and Federal Optometric Services (also known as AFOS) where she helped shape and advance the field of optometry. She was also recognized as the 2019 AFOS VA Optometrist of the Year, which is an honor that reflects the profound respect she earned from her peers and the exceptional care she provided to her patients.

Those who had the privilege of working alongside Carla witnessed firsthand her compassion, integrity, and commitment to mentorship. She set a standard of excellence that elevated the profession and enriched the lives of countless patients and colleagues. Her impact extends far beyond titles and awards as it lives on in the optometry residents and students she inspired and the many patients she cared for especially those with traumatic brain injury and impaired vision.

In dedication to Carla, AFOS has renamed their annual award the Dr. Carla Engelke Resident of the Year award and has started a travel grant to provide funding to residents to travel to educational meetings to honor and memorialize Carla’s legacy. If you would like to contribute to the AFOS optometry resident travel grant, a memorial fund has been set up in her name and honor: https://www.gofundme.com/f/dr-carla-engelke-legacy-fund

Checks can also be sent to:

AFOS
C/o Dr. Lindsay Wright
11705 Airport Way, Suite 306
Broomfield, CO 88201

A private burial to honor Carla will be held at a later date. She is loved and will be sadly missed by her family, friends, and colleagues. Williamson Funeral Home, in Staunton, is in charge of arrangements.

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